Friendship


中午吃饭巧遇J大叔,平时和J大叔点头之交,没有太多机会进一步了解。开始的时候J大叔有些拘谨,一顿午饭下来,J大叔聊欢了。说自己现在非常为几个女儿担忧,说每一个女儿都是家庭主妇,常年在家带小孩,怕她们和社会脱节,怕她们情感上得不到满足,也怕满足不了对方,怕婚姻出状况。说女儿们个个大学毕业,这么多书都白念了。狗熊听完,一阵狂开导,把平时开导小老板的看家本领全拿出来,狠狠地鼓励了J大叔一把。基本上吧,社会脱节和工作有无没必然关系,情感上满足不满足和工作有无也没必然关系,高兴不高兴也和工作有无没有必然关系。人要是想消极,那就算有再好的工作,也高兴不起来。人要是积极自信了,有钱没钱有工作没工作,走哪儿都朝气蓬勃,家庭关系融洽,培养出来的孩子也高高兴兴的。而且大学没有白念,她们学到的知识丰富了自己的人生,还能传递给孩子们。其实每个女儿本身都过得挺好的,就他一个人担心,所以要放宽心放宽心。临走J大叔说,I never expect to have such deep levels of communication with someone who is about half of my age, from a different culture, and of the opposite gender (我从来没以为会和一个年龄是我一半的,来自别的文化的,异性小朋友有如此深层次的交流)。狗熊听了心里乐开了花,那绝对是天天对付小老板炼出来。狗熊说:缘分不分年龄,不分国籍,不分性别(Friendship doesn’t depend on age, culture, or gender). 又多了一个朋友,开心。

 

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